The True Friends

07May

 

True friends are some of life’s greatest treasures. True friends are like solar eclipses. They don’t happen very often, and you have to be in the right place at the right time to experience them. But when committed friendship is experienced, as with a solar eclipse, our perception of everything around us changes.

Often, I have heard the lament, “I don’t have many friends.” If we are talking about the kind of friend who cheerfully commits to helping at the most inconvenient times in the most sacrificial ways, nobody has “many” of those. A person may have two or three, but most will do well to have one true friend. The confusion comes from how we use the word “friend.” We use the word “love” for desserts and for our children. Same word, but entirely different experience.

True friends are resilient. Solomon described it this way, “At all times, the friend loves.” (Prov.17:17 my translation) The Hebrew has the definite article “the” attached to the word “friend.” Not “a” friend, but “the at all times” friend is an experience worth the investment.

What kind of investment produces such friendship? They tend to start with a natural connection point. Without commonality, there is no meaningful connection. But that is only the starting point. Time and effort invested, mostly in combined efforts toward valued causes, is the fertile soil from which true friends spring. Trial by fire tempers the most solid relationships. Only a few friends turn out to be “the friend” that loves at all times. The hits are worth all the misses.

 

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Posted by Ron Lawler

I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior when I was a teen. A friend had invited me to attend church to help out in a Sunday School attendance drive. At the end of the worship service I asked the Pastor how I could know for sure I would go to Heaven. He had someone show me from the Scriptures how to receive Christ and from that day to this, I have had an assurance of Christ as my Savior and Heaven as my eternal home.

Within a few weeks I sensed a building desire to enter into full time ministry. My church observed me and confirmed the call. Upon graduation from High School, I enrolled in Bible College and I have been in ministry ever since. I was ordained to the ministry by my home church in Texas in 1974. It has been my privilege to be Pastor of Preaching and Teaching at Family Bible since 2005.

Cheryl and I were married in 1973. God has blessed us with two children, Rachel and David, and four grandsons.

Favorite part of ministry? - Researching and discussing questions about the Bible.

Favorite verse? - "Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm.  Let nothing move you.  Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain." 1 Corinthians 15:58

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